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Finding the PERFECT Mate
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Here's how to find the PERFECT mate for those of you who spend too much time at your computers.
Sit down and PHYSICALLY write out ON PAPER exactly what you want in a mate. Update this list after each failed relationship with what went well and what to avoid. This list is for your eyes only and MUST be written down, not "KEPT IN YOUR HEAD." If you just "keep it in your head" IT WILL NOT WORK. People that "keep their goals and dreams in their head" are lazy weenies that really HAVE NO goals or dreams but are in delusion. When one commits a goal or a dream to PAPER they take an INTANGIBLE POSTULATE and embed it into PHYSICAL REALITY. The mere act of committing a postulate (i.e., dream or goal) to tangible reality takes EFFORT and careful thought. When you put EFFORT and CAREFUL THOUGHT into something, and then embed it into PAPER so you can read, re-read and adjust it the next day, the next week, the next month and at the end of each failed relationship -- you will eventually, and heuristically, arrive at a state where:
YOU WILL KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED AND WANT IN A MATE.
I emphasize the word YOU, because if YOU do not know what YOU want and need, how is the UNIVERSE going to know what YOU need and want? There is no GOD out there looking after you unless you are taking the initiative to look after yourself by not jerking the Universe around with wishy-washy thinking and postulates.(1) Once you are CLEAR on what you need and want, the UNIVERSE will MANUFACTURE the exact item (girl,
guy, robot, whatever). This will take a little time because s/he/it will not be delivered to your doorstep, but one day or night you will be somewhere and suddenly such a being will come into your life. The fact that you have done your WRITTEN postulate will thus place you into the position of RECOGNIZING this being (woman/man).(2) Most people are not even in a position to RECOGNIZE their dream mate even if such were dropped on their lap from heaven.
So there is nothing mysterious about any of this. It's all mechanical and in keeping with science and technology methodology. Out of a possible 6 billion people on this planet, a certain set of those will be almost perfect for YOU. YOU need to systematically find that exterior reality (girl) by starting with your own INTERIOR reality (postulate list on paper).
Then, if you decide to marry her, YOUR LIFE WILL BE BLISS and any children that come out of it will be a pleasure despite all the HORRORS of childbirth.
James Jaeger
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(1) And by doing so, you will become a stronger individual that, when combined with many other stronger individuals, will emerge as a stronger group. This is why going after the agenda of GREATEST GOOD FOR THE GROUP will result in weak individuals and a tyrannical and failed group. But creating strong individuals will create the emergent property known as a STRONG GROUP. The collectivist mentality and government mentality want you to believe the only way to a strong group is to support the GROUP (them) and relegate support of the INDIVIDUAL to a secondary consideration. This is a dangerous meme that is destroying society and civilization.
(2) And if you are a man you are looking for a woman NOT a man. If you are a woman you are looking for a man, not a woman. People that look for the same sex are aberated and not normal. The idea that there is a sexual spectrum and everyone has a certain amount of male and female in them IS true, and a very small part of the population is NOT heterosexual, but this is less than 1% of the population. The current Hollywood- and New York-base media and motion picture industries are infiltrated by cultural Marxists who are using a technology known as ANDROGYNY to break up the family unit and traditional relationships, which includes the traditional biological union. To get a better idea of how this technology is used see http://www.mecfilms.com/mid/movies/oi/3b_cultural. wmv I will put up a more specific clip later at http://www.mecfilms.com/mid/movies/oi/androgyny.wm v |
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Re: Finding the PERFECT Mate
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>but there's room for manifest design left to the mind's eye. Although writing down intent is great advice, i'll have to give this a go.
I was once an editor for a Lee Strasberg documentary. Lee invented "Method Acting" and got people like Marlon Brando and Marilynn Monroe started. I will never forget some of his words. He said, "If you don't know what you want to create, you will never in a million create it."
He was talking about how an actor can find his character. The actor must determine exactly what the character is all about and then he will have the ability to create that performance.
So all I did was take this bit of advice and apply it to relationships in real life instead of the stage. By writing a list, you are in essence creating YOUR character. By defining what a character needs and wants, we have a better defined character. Now, that character being well defined, is more able to enter the stage of life and interact, or attract, another character that will play the part of their perfect mate.
In other words, by assuming a beingness in the real world, you provide the security and the confidence for some woman to come in and play the part of a perfect mate. She will "play the part" because she will automatically "fit" you, because she will sense that she IS a fit. It's not that she is changing for you or you are forcing any changes on her, you are simply providing a "docking" platform for another being, who happens to be "dockable" with you to enter your life. Hundreds, perhaps thousands of women flow past you as your life proceeds, but if you know what you want, you will KNOW WHAT YOU WILL HAVE TO CREATE, as Lee might have said and one of these women will sense this and automatically gravitate to you and you to her and you will interlock as a perfect fit. This obviously works for both sexes.
James
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